I found this meme floating around social media and felt the need to share it.
Yesterday (Feb 5) was National Signing Day (NSD) for football players headed to college. We now have two of those dates actually with early signing period long over before the holidays.
I have spent nearly 15 years trying to help high school football student-athletes get money for college. Not so much these last few years because it has become a load trying to help kids and their parents understand what it takes. There has never been a NSD go by without me having at least two top level high school senior football players that were worthy of getting school paid for or at least a good chunk of it. But when I ask them come January how they scored on their SAT I always get "I have not taken it yet but I plan on it." -- I cannot help those kids anymore.
98% of the kids I work with are only capable of playing D2, D3 or NAIA level ball. They can get money for it -- but most of them don't understand what that entails when it comes to grades and SAT/ACT scores while dealing with the ego buster of not getting looks from the big time universities.
Three things I have learned that make it difficult for me to help anymore:
1. Having to tell kids and their parents they are not good enough to play at WVU, Maryland, Penn State, etc. It has caused me grief because of their self-belief he should be able to compete at that level. Nothing new there really. But it's gotten worse. The kids and parents get so discouraged when big time schools show no interest. It's a reality check to self-entitlement.
2. I cannot be the person that looks over an athlete's shoulder continually badgering them about not just taking the SAT/ACT multiple times, but to prepare for it. IT NEVER FAILS every year to see kids miss the boat because of ignoring these things.The way I see it, if you are not willing to do the things required academically, then college is not for you anyway. I was 18 once so I do get it. I'm just lucky to have parents that pushed me to do those things.
3. College coaches have become limited and lazy. Not all obviously. But the resources dedicated to recruiting at many non-D1 level schools is so low that college coaches are only going to work with high schools and high school coaches they always work with or kids they have been talking to for a long time. So if the student-athlete isn't going to make contact with D2 and D3 coaches in the off season, don't waste your time come December. I can no longer go to a coach and say "Hey, here is this 6'7, 285 pound senior tackle that is going to be an All-Conference player for you down the road." Then get a reply that says, "Meh, I don't know that kid."
There is nothing worse in recruiting then seeing a senior football player crash the D2 and D3 level coaches after the season is over. They get told this as sophomores, but they end up having to find out for themselves the hard way.
Yesterday (Feb 5) was National Signing Day (NSD) for football players headed to college. We now have two of those dates actually with early signing period long over before the holidays.
I have spent nearly 15 years trying to help high school football student-athletes get money for college. Not so much these last few years because it has become a load trying to help kids and their parents understand what it takes. There has never been a NSD go by without me having at least two top level high school senior football players that were worthy of getting school paid for or at least a good chunk of it. But when I ask them come January how they scored on their SAT I always get "I have not taken it yet but I plan on it." -- I cannot help those kids anymore.
98% of the kids I work with are only capable of playing D2, D3 or NAIA level ball. They can get money for it -- but most of them don't understand what that entails when it comes to grades and SAT/ACT scores while dealing with the ego buster of not getting looks from the big time universities.
Three things I have learned that make it difficult for me to help anymore:
1. Having to tell kids and their parents they are not good enough to play at WVU, Maryland, Penn State, etc. It has caused me grief because of their self-belief he should be able to compete at that level. Nothing new there really. But it's gotten worse. The kids and parents get so discouraged when big time schools show no interest. It's a reality check to self-entitlement.
2. I cannot be the person that looks over an athlete's shoulder continually badgering them about not just taking the SAT/ACT multiple times, but to prepare for it. IT NEVER FAILS every year to see kids miss the boat because of ignoring these things.The way I see it, if you are not willing to do the things required academically, then college is not for you anyway. I was 18 once so I do get it. I'm just lucky to have parents that pushed me to do those things.
3. College coaches have become limited and lazy. Not all obviously. But the resources dedicated to recruiting at many non-D1 level schools is so low that college coaches are only going to work with high schools and high school coaches they always work with or kids they have been talking to for a long time. So if the student-athlete isn't going to make contact with D2 and D3 coaches in the off season, don't waste your time come December. I can no longer go to a coach and say "Hey, here is this 6'7, 285 pound senior tackle that is going to be an All-Conference player for you down the road." Then get a reply that says, "Meh, I don't know that kid."
There is nothing worse in recruiting then seeing a senior football player crash the D2 and D3 level coaches after the season is over. They get told this as sophomores, but they end up having to find out for themselves the hard way.
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